Are there some sort of "magical" words to use to get your ex to call you back? It may sound silly or hard to believe but there are certain words that can almost put your ex in a spell making him compelled to return your call.
What "Not" To Say!
Before getting into the actual words, there are two messages that in most cases will never work.
THE PLEAD:
This is where your message sounds like "Jeff, please,I really really need you to call me, I HAVE to talk to you."
THE EMERGENCY:
"Cathy, this is an emergency.Please call me back as soon as you can."
Can you see the problem with these two messages!
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ADVANTAGES OF CURIOSITY AND SELF INTEREST
These can be very influential powers of the mind.The combination of the two can give you a formula that will work like "magic."
Here's what will work every time:
"Hello Jeff .It's Cathy, I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me.Give me a call because I would like to thank you in person."
Can you see the curiosity and self interest in this call?
Jeff will be curious and can't resist! "What is it that I did?"
"What is she appreciating?" he will be thinking.And Jeff will start feeling pretty darn good about the message.
To make this work you need to have a "plan"........which is to figure out something that they did big or small that is plausible.
IMPORTANT!........You must have a "strategy" in place before they call back or you can do more damage than good, if not handled properly!
Every thing that you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is more critical than actually getting them to return your call.
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